You strumpet!
My family struggles to open up about sex, which is why I appreciated it when my brother stepped bravely into the amphitheater . I enjoyed the heck out of his essay. It's a perfect read for the people who love him in all senses of the word love. I myself have a few strong opinions, and I basically copy him on half the stuff he does anyway, so to quote him, "Here's my thoughts on the topic." You know what? I'm annoyed at the concept of virginity in the first place. Me, I don't like getting legalistic about what counts as sex, let alone bugging people about whether or not they've had it. I mean, first off, some people are other-abled or whatever, and I want them to be able to define for themselves what sex is. But more to the point, I'm concerned that getting legalistic about sex will cause us to repeat some mistakes of the religious past and miss the point. For starters, our sex drives literally plug us into one another. Now, do you necessarily need s...